Go from Wanting to Change to Deciding to Change

Are you a secret superstar?

I mean, are you living a life that’s luke-warm?

A few fireworks here and there,

But where you are right now

Isn’t where you want to be?

You have a job

It brings in money

But yet,

You’re still unfulfilled

This was me.


I was a serial job-hopper.

Don’t get me wrong, I haven’t had tonnes of jobs.

I wasn’t some kind of disloyal employee

Only scratching the surface of a company


I put my ALL into every job.

My heart and my soul.

My everything.

Perhaps that’s why I’ve always done well.

But it didn’t last.

And it was different returning to my corporate career after my second child.

I had changed.

Lots had changed.

And I lost my focus, my love for the job and that sense of purpose.

I don’t mind telling you, I struggled.

Mentally and emotionally

And I fell into a dark place

And I fell out of love with my job

I fell out of love with my husband

I fell out of love with my children

And I fell out of love with…me.

Then life got complicated

It got messy and exhausting

And I needed help

So after two years of feeling lost, stuck and angry…

I got the help I needed.

It was really tough…

But I mended my relationship with my children and that’s something I’m eternally grateful for.

My relationship with my husband teetered on the edge

But after we got the help we needed…

we survived

and we worked hard and we were both committed

Now, we are a force to be reckoned with.

And then,

I took the time to look at me…

I needed to get clear about what made me happy

And what made me feel alive

And then create it

Instead of pretending I couldn’t have it

Or that I didn’t deserve it

I went from wanting to change my life

To deciding to change my life.

I could have made this decision from my comfy sofa

Or from behind the safety of a company desk

But, instead, I jumped into creating an action plan to get myself to where I wanted to be.

I knew I had to do some stuff that would make me feel nervous and scared

and take steps that might have made my nearest and dearest question my motives

I invested money, time and a lot of emotion in making this change a reality

But I knew that the journey would not be as hard as feeling like I did before…

Lost, stuck and unhappy.

I didn’t want that back.

But guess what?

This is just my journey I’m describing…

You don’t have to wait until you hit rock bottom to start crawling out of your hole.

All you have to do is make the decision.

And you can make it right now.

My journey to creating what I wanted was a process

(and still is)

and that started with making some serious changes

No matter what happened along the way.

And now…

I have a successful online business helping the type of women I hold dear in my heart.

It means so much to me to help my clients go from that place of feeling lost to that place of happiness and joy.

And if you believe this is possible, that’s the first step.

Create something you totally love doing.

Create it now.

If you’re ready to go there, let’s do this.

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